* "You wouldn't understand."
* "Let me explain this to you in simple terms."
* "You're so naive."
* "Well, I'm just trying to help you."
* "You really should know this by now."
These sentences all subtly communicate that the speaker believes they are more intelligent, knowledgeable, or capable than the listener. This can be very hurtful and disrespectful, even if the speaker doesn't intend for it to be that way.
Here's an example:
* Condescending: "You know, you really should read more books. You seem to be missing out on a lot of information."
* Not condescending: "I've been reading a lot of interesting books lately. Have you read any good ones recently?"
The first sentence implies that the speaker is superior because they read more books. The second sentence simply invites conversation without making any judgment about the listener.
Condescending language can be difficult to identify, especially when it's coming from someone we trust or respect. However, it's important to be aware of how our words might be perceived by others and to strive to communicate in a way that is respectful and considerate.