Here's how it works:
* You're suggesting that the other person is trying to convince you of something that you already know.
* The phrase expresses disbelief or skepticism. It's like saying, "You think I'm going to believe that?" or "Come on, don't try to pull the wool over my eyes."
Example:
* You: "I'm so stressed with my new job. It's so demanding."
* Friend: "I know what you mean, I was so stressed when I started my new job too."
* You: "Who are you telling?" (meaning, you already know how stressful it can be, so don't pretend to understand me.)
In short, "Who are you telling?" expresses a lack of belief or frustration with someone who is attempting to persuade you of something you already know.