Here's why:
* Singular they: The most common and grammatically correct way to refer to a person of unknown gender is to use the singular "they." For example: "The person who left their phone here can claim it at the front desk."
* Gender-neutral pronouns: Using pronouns like "they," "them," and "their" helps avoid assumptions about someone's gender identity.
* Avoiding assumptions: Using "he-she" implies that someone must be either male or female, which can be problematic for people who identify as non-binary or gender-fluid.
It's important to be mindful of language and use inclusive terms that respect everyone's gender identity.