Examples:
* I gave the book to John. (Direct object = John, preposition = to)
* She wrote a letter for her grandmother. (Direct object = grandmother, preposition = for)
However, there are also instances where no preposition is used:
* I helped my neighbor. (Direct object = neighbor, no preposition)
The choice of preposition (or absence of one) depends on the specific verb and the intended meaning.
Here are some common verbs that take "to" or "for" before a person as a direct object:
* Give: I gave the book to John.
* Tell: I told the story to my friend.
* Show: I showed the pictures to my parents.
* Send: I sent a letter to my sister.
* Buy: I bought a present for my brother.
* Make: I made a cake for my mom.
Remember, the best way to determine the correct preposition (or lack thereof) is to consider the context and the intended meaning of the sentence.