Here's a breakdown:
* Persuasion: Cajoling aims to convince someone to do something they might not want to do initially.
* Flattery: Using compliments and positive reinforcement is often part of the strategy.
* Gentle Urging: The approach is often subtle and patient, avoiding pressure or force.
Examples of cajoling:
* "Come on, just one more slice of cake. I know you can't resist!"
* "You're such a talented artist, you really should submit your work to that competition."
* "I know you're tired, but just a few more minutes of work and then we can go out for ice cream."
Key Points:
* Cajoling can be a manipulative tactic if used excessively or insincerely.
* It's a form of persuasion that can be used in both positive and negative ways.
* Understanding the meaning of cajoling can help you recognize when it's being used on you and whether it's appropriate.