Here's why and some alternatives:
Why "I hate you" is problematic:
* Directness: Directly expressing hatred is seen as rude and confrontational.
* Loss of face: Saying "I hate you" can cause the other person to lose face, which is a major cultural concern in Chinese society.
Better Alternatives:
* "I dislike you very much" (我很不喜欢你): This is a milder way to express strong dislike without being overly aggressive.
* "I can't stand you" (我受不了你): This conveys frustration and intolerance but avoids the harshness of "hate."
* "I don't want to see you anymore" (我不想再见到你了): This is a clear and concise way to express your desire for distance without explicitly saying "I hate you."
* "You make me angry" (你让我很生气): This focuses on the emotion you're experiencing rather than directly labeling the other person.
Important considerations:
* Context: The most appropriate way to express dislike depends on the specific situation and your relationship with the person.
* Tone: Even using milder language can be perceived negatively if your tone is aggressive or hostile.
Remember: Instead of resorting to harsh language, consider using constructive communication to address the issues that are causing you to feel this way.