Onomatopoeia:
* Simple: *Slap*, *Thwap*, *Whap*, *Pop*
* More intense: *Smack*, *Bop*, *Thwack*, *Pow*, *BAM*
* Specific: *Splat*, *Whack*, *Klap* (used for different materials being slapped)
Descriptive:
* The sound of a hand connecting with flesh, a sharp *crack* that echoed in the room.
* The impact was like a wet *thud*, followed by a muffled *oomph* as the object fell to the ground.
Combining methods:
* *Splat*! The pie landed on the clown's face, leaving a sticky mess.
* He slapped her across the face, the *thwap* echoing in the stunned silence.
For a more subtle sound:
* The hand landed on the cheek with a soft *thud*.
* A gentle *tap* on the shoulder was enough to get her attention.
The best way to write a slap sound depends on the story, the desired effect, and your own personal style.