Here are some examples of common verbal fillers:
Common Fillers:
* Um
* Uh
* Like
* You know
* So
* Well
* Actually
* Basically
* Kind of
* Sort of
* I mean
* Right
* Okay
* Anyway
* See
* And stuff
* Whatever
Why People Use Fillers:
* To buy time: When someone is trying to think of the right words to say.
* To signal a pause: To create a short break in their speech for emphasis or to gather their thoughts.
* To show they are listening: Using fillers like "uh-huh" or "right" can indicate to the speaker that they are paying attention.
* Habit: Some people use fillers as a habit even when they are not necessary.
How to Reduce Fillers:
* Be aware of them: Pay attention to when you use fillers in conversation.
* Practice pausing: Take a moment to think before you speak.
* Use fillers strategically: If you use a filler, try to use it sparingly and only for a specific purpose.
* Focus on your message: Concentrate on what you want to say, and the fillers will naturally decrease.
While some verbal fillers can make speech sound less polished, they are a normal part of conversation. If you are concerned about your use of fillers, try to be more aware of them and make small changes to your speech habits.