When you DO need a comma:
* When "so" introduces a dependent clause: The dependent clause needs a comma to separate it from the independent clause.
* Example: "So, the party ended early." (The independent clause is "the party ended early.")
* When "so" introduces a contrasting idea: The comma emphasizes the contrasting relationship.
* Example: "So, I didn't go to the party, but I stayed home and watched a movie."
When you DON'T need a comma:
* When "so" introduces an independent clause: The sentence is grammatically correct without the comma.
* Example: "So the party was fun."
* When "so" is used as an intensifier or conjunction: It's not introducing a separate clause, but rather modifying a verb or phrase.
* Example: "So I am excited about the party." (Here, "so" intensifies the verb "am")
Key takeaway: Think about the role "so" plays in your sentence. If it's introducing a clause or a contrasting idea, a comma is usually necessary. If it's intensifying or acting as a conjunction, the comma is typically unnecessary.