For "in loving memory":
* Me ke aloha nui: This literally means "with great love."
* I ka ho'omana'o aloha: This means "in loving memory" and specifically uses the word "ho'omana'o" which means "remembrance."
* No ke aloha: This means "for love" and is often used as a dedication to someone dearly loved.
For "remembrance":
* Ho'omana'o: This means "remembrance" and can be used on its own or in conjunction with other phrases.
* I ka ho'omana'o: This means "in remembrance" and uses the word "ho'omana'o."
* Ma ke aloha: This means "with love" and can be used to indicate remembrance with fondness.
You can use these phrases in a memorial or dedication, or even in a simple inscription. Remember that context is important, and the best choice will depend on the specific situation.
It's also worth noting that many Hawaiian families have their own unique ways of honoring loved ones, so it might be helpful to consult with someone from the family or community if you're unsure about the best way to express your sentiments.