Here are some options:
For a romantic lover:
* Любовник (lyubovnik): This is the most common word for a male lover, particularly in a romantic or extramarital relationship.
* Любовница (lyubovnitsa): This is the feminine equivalent of "lyubovnik," used for a female lover.
* Возлюбленный (vozlyublennyy): This word is more formal and can be used for a beloved person, but also for a lover.
* Возлюбленная (vozlyublennaya): The feminine form of "vozlyublennyy."
For a person you have a strong affection for:
* Любимый (lyubimy): This means "beloved" and can be used for someone you love romantically or platonically.
* Любимая (lyubimaya): The feminine form of "lyubimy."
For a person you're passionately in love with:
* Страстный (strastnyy): This means "passionate," and can be used to describe a lover.
* Страстная (strastnaya): The feminine form of "strastnyy."
It's important to choose the right word based on the specific context and the relationship between the people involved.