Aapke sawal ke baare mein kuchh baaton par vichaar karna zaruri hai:
* Pyar aur Jung: Pyar aur Jung dono hi alag-alag dharna hai. Pyar ek aisa bhavana hai jo do logon ko jodta hai, jabki Jung ek aisa dhol hai jisme logon ko marne ka aadesh diya jata hai.
* Najaiz: "Najaiz" shabd ka matlab hota hai ki kuchh aisa hai jo samajik ya kanooni roop se sahi nahin hai. Ek bachche ke janm ko "najaiz" kehna, use uske maa-baap ki alag hone ki vajah se ghalat samajhna hota hai.
* Samajik Dristikon: Har samaj ka apna alag-alag dristikon hota hai. Kuchh samaj mein ek aurat ke shादी से pahle bachche hone ko "najaiz" maana jata hai, jabki kuchh samaj mein ye koi ghalat baat nahin hoti.
Aapke sawal ka jawab dena mushkil hai kyunki:
* Koi ek sahi jawab nahin hai: Har shakhsiyat ka apna alag-alag dristikon aur maan-ne layak baat hoti hai.
* Samaanjik aur naitiki baat: Ye baat samajik aur naitiki roop se bahut hi jhatili aur mushkil hai.
Kya karein:
* Sooch-vichaar karein: Apne dristikon par sooch-vichaar karein aur yeh samjhein ki aap kyun aise soch rahe hain.
* Dusro se baat karein: Dusro se baat karein aur unke dristikon ko sunen.
* Samajh ka dhyaan rakhna: Har samaj ka apna alag-alag dristikon hota hai.
Yeh yaad rakhein ki ek bachche ka janm, chahe woh kisi bhi halat mein ho, ek aisi baat hai jo alag-alag alag-alag dristikon se dekhi ja sakti hai. Aapke dristikon ko samajhna aur apne alag-alag dristikon se baat karna bahut jaruri hai.