"Beside himself/herself"
This implies a state of intense emotion, often anger, frustration, or despair, causing someone to lose control or act irrationally.
For example:
* "He was hors de lui with rage after losing the game."
* "She was hors de lui with grief after the accident."
Essentially, "hors de lui" means someone is so overcome with emotion that they are not acting like their usual self.