Which of the following terms is an appropriate gender neutral term to use in society?

You did not provide any terms for me to evaluate! Please provide a list of terms so I can tell you which one is the most appropriate gender-neutral term to use in society.

For example, you could ask:

"Which of the following terms is an appropriate gender neutral term to use in society: 'partner,' 'spouse,' 'significant other,' 'lover,' 'life partner?'"

I would then be able to analyze those terms and offer my opinion on which one is most suitable based on current societal norms and understanding of gender identity.