Here are some preferred terms:
* Gay: Used to describe a man who is attracted to other men.
* Lesbian: Used to describe a woman who is attracted to other women.
* Bisexual: Used to describe a person who is attracted to more than one gender.
* Same-sex attracted: A more neutral term that can be used to describe people who are attracted to people of the same gender.
It's essential to be mindful of the language we use and to avoid perpetuating harmful stereotypes.