Here are some more inclusive alternatives:
Focusing on abilities:
* Diverse abilities
* Neurodiversity (specifically for neurodevelopmental conditions)
* Different learning styles
* Individuals with disabilities
* People with special needs (this phrasing is more inclusive than simply "special needs")
Focusing on specific needs:
* Individuals with developmental disabilities
* People with physical disabilities
* Individuals with learning differences
Ultimately, the best choice depends on the specific context and the individuals you are discussing. It's always a good idea to prioritize person-first language and avoid using terms that might be considered offensive or outdated.