Here's a breakdown:
* "I see": This indicates that you have listened and comprehended the other person's point of view.
* "Where you are coming from": This refers to the logic, reasoning, or experiences that have led the other person to their opinion or position.
Essentially, it shows empathy and acknowledges that the other person has valid reasons for their stance, even if you don't share those reasons.
Example:
* Friend: "I think we should skip the party. I'm just not feeling up to it."
* You: "I see where you are coming from. You've been really stressed lately, and a party might be too much right now."
In this example, even though you might enjoy the party, you understand why your friend wants to skip it. You acknowledge their feelings and the reasons behind their decision.
Key Points:
* It's a way to show respect and understanding in a disagreement.
* It doesn't necessarily mean you agree with the person's perspective.
* It can be a starting point for further discussion or compromise.