Is this a correct grammar i hate you the way me?

No, that sentence is not grammatically correct. It's also not quite clear what you're trying to say.

Here are some possible ways to correct it, depending on your meaning:

* If you're trying to express intense hatred: "I hate you more than words can say." or "I hate you with every fiber of my being."

* If you're trying to express a specific type of hatred: "I hate you the way you hate me." This is more grammatically correct, but it's still a bit strange, as it implies a shared hatred.

* If you're trying to say something else entirely: Please clarify what you mean, and I can help you express it correctly.

It's important to use proper grammar to communicate your thoughts and feelings clearly.